The best way to learn how not to settle.. Is to settle…and learn the hard way how it is to keep yourself imprisoned and turning away the voices you trust.

Keeping your unhappiness a secret from those who love you.

Feeling not heard, not respected, not loved.

Feeling like you’ve lost control of your mind, your confidence, your essence.

That is the way i learned anyhow.

And that may very well be the only way to learn or it may be the only way i learned not to want to ever make that mistake again.

8 thoughts on “Learning

  1. eob2 says:

    It maybe the only way many learn. However not all are successful in that approach, sadly. Good post.

  2. Navin says:

    Dear Q…I understand the Learning….the only person that can bring a change in me is myself….I’m sure you understand….love & light is what we need to live the life….I hope you’re ok….pls take care….sending you love ❤️✨

    • QueridaJ says:

      Hello Navin! You are so right change comes from within, because we in our inaction can also enable others to mistreat us. I’m perfectly well, just reflection I feel is key. Hope you are well and safe as well! 💛💛

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