The best way to learn how not to settle.. Is to settle…and learn the hard way how it is to keep yourself imprisoned and turning away the voices you trust.
Keeping your unhappiness a secret from those who love you.
Feeling not heard, not respected, not loved.
Feeling like you’ve lost control of your mind, your confidence, your essence.
That is the way i learned anyhow.
And that may very well be the only way to learn or it may be the only way i learned not to want to ever make that mistake again.